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Is your child ready for a phone?

9 questions about your child, not a test of you.

Every question shows the research behind it.

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Childhood should happen in real life

The first phone is one of the most consequential decisions a family makes. And it arrives earlier than most parents expect, usually with little to no support on how to handle it well.

Balance Phone Kids

Did you know that...

1 in 3 Internet users worldwide is a child. Source: UNICEF, Children in a Digital World
The average child will spend 4 years of their life looking at a screen before turning 18. Source: Common Sense Media, 2023
1 in 3 teenagers says Instagram makes me feel worse about my body. Source: Wall Street Journal, 2021
54% of teenagers admit they would struggle to give up social media. Source: Pew Research

Most phones are built to keep you scrolling. We built ours to do the opposite; a device that stays out of the way and gives you your attention back. Whether you choose the Balance Phone or the Pro, you don't have to choose between a phone that performs and a life that stays present.

The tools no school gives you.

Practical, honest resources for the moments that matter.

Balance Phone Guides

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Guide 01

THE CONVERSATION GUIDE

How to open the topic with your child: how to frame it, handle objections and reach an agreement that lasts. Includes scripts for ages 10, 12 and 14.

Guide 02

AGE RECOMMENDATION

How to open the topic with your child: how to frame it, handle objections and reach an agreement that lasts. Includes scripts for ages 10, 12 and 14.

Guide 03

MANAGING APPS AND SCREENS

How to open the topic with your child: how to frame it, handle objections and reach an agreement that lasts. Includes scripts for ages 10, 12 and 14.

Everything school skips about screens.

Short talks from the experts who work with families every day.

Balance Phone University

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Lesson 01

What's really going on with screens

An honest look at why screen use has become the defining challenge of modern childhood.

Lesson 02

Why phones are so hard to put down

The design tricks that keep us hooked, and what that means for children.

Lesson 03

The effects of heavy phone use

What excessive phone use does to children and teenagers, backed by research.

Lesson 04

What is Balance Phone?

A short introduction to the phone built to give attention back.

Lesson 05

What changes without addictive content

What really shifts when a child uses a phone with no addictive apps or content.

Longer reads for the bigger questions.

Essays on childhood, attention and the world we're handing our kids.

Balance Phone Articles

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Article 01

A 40-minute wait changed everything

Something happened at the doctor's office the other day.

Article 02

The brain your teenager is building right now

Experience is not optional. It's how the brain builds itself.

Article 03

From a play-based childhood to a phone-based childhood

The loss of unstructured play didn't begin with the smartphone. But the smartphone may have made it permanent.

Article 04

What the internet is doing to our attention span

Your phone is on the table, switched off. Your focus has already dropped 9%.

Article 05

What's left when the phone goes quiet

These things never disappeared. They just stopped being the default.

Article 06

Balance Phone use in patients with addictions

What we learned from a four-month pilot with a Barcelona addiction treatment centre.

Made to be used, not just read.

Agreements, checklists and templates you can print today.

Balance Phone Tools

Tool 01

Is your child ready for a phone?

9 questions about your child, not a test of you. Every question shows the research behind it.

Things worth your attention.

A book, a film and a place we love, for when you want to slow down.

Balance Phone Picks

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Worth reading

The Book Of Tea, Okakura Kakuzō

A quiet classic about finding beauty in simplicity, presence and the rituals of everyday life.

Worth watching

Aftersun, Charlotte Wells

A quiet, sun-soaked film about memory, childhood and the moments we only understand with time.

Worth visiting

Fondation Maeght, Saint-Paul-de-Vence

Modern art, sculpture gardens and Mediterranean light. A place that rewards taking your time.

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